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Manning Mama: The fine art of school supply bribery

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Ah, the start of a new school year. The time when fresh beginnings are made, routines are reset, and, in my house, the delicate dance of bribery begins. Yes, you read that right. I’ve learned that the secret to a smooth school year isn’t just in getting the kids to bed on time or packing the perfect lunch. It’s in the power of school supplies.

Every year, as August rolls around, I prepare myself for the inevitable: late mornings, forgotten permission slips, and the occasional missed school event. But rather than letting this be the downfall of my reputation as a somewhat put-together parent, I’ve found a loophole—a way to win the teachers over before they start seeing the real me. I inundate them with supplies.

Take, for example, my recent back-to-school shopping escapade. Armed with the teacher’s list, I bought double of everything. Kleenex? Three packs. Lysol wipes? Two packs. Hand sanitizers? Five 98-cent specials. Why, you ask? Because when it’s likely your kids will be late to class every other day for the entire year, a little butt kissin’ that first week goes a long way. Consider it a preemptive strike, a way to buy goodwill before the chaos sets in.

But even the best-laid plans don’t always pan out. Like that time I triumphantly sent my kids off on their first day of school, each one carrying a bag full of supplies, ready to dazzle their teachers with our preparedness. The only problem? Not a single pencil between the three of them. Not one. World’s Okayest Mom strikes again.

Of course, no amount of supplies can make up for the little mishaps that are bound to happen. Take my son, Connor, for instance. I once asked him if his first-grade teacher had to help him with his pants that day. His response? “Yes.” Were any of the other kids in the same boat? “No. They don’t have the same pants as me.” That’s right, kid. Blame the pants. Duh.

Despite all this, I somehow convinced a group of educators that I was a great candidate for a substitute teacher. That’s right, folks. Last year, I found myself standing in front of a classroom, trying to look like I had everything under control. It’s like winning an Oscar when you didn’t even audition for the role. But seriously, I loved it, and seeing my own kids during the day was a huge bonus. It’s also a reminder that no matter how much I may flub things at home, I’m still showing up and trying my best, and that’s what matters most.

So, here’s to another school year, full of forgotten forms, missed meetings, and the hope that a few extra boxes of Kleenex will make up for all of it. After all, it’s not about being perfect; it’s about surviving with a smile and a sense of humor. And maybe, just maybe, a few extra supplies.