Robert A. Farley doesn't want to live his life in the spotlight.
The 51-year-old Florence resident - and former Manning resident - would prefer to remain anonymous. But he needs a new kidney, and with just a Social Security check to support him, his wife and two children, he needs some help to get it.
His mother is helping in that respect, and has set up an account in her son's name at the Bank of Clarendon.
"He lived in Manning for a long time, but he has to live in Florence to be close to his doctors and his dialysis," said Ella Farley. "His life changed completely about nine years ago when he was diagnosed with immunoglobulin A nephropathy, also known as Berger's Syndrome.
"This results in local inflammation that, over time, may hamper your kidneys' ability to filter waste, excess water and electrolytes from your blood," according to WebMD. "Kidney damage may be indicated by blood and protein in your urine, high blood pressure and swollen feet."
The illness has progressed slowly in Farley, causing him to start dialysis about five years ago, Ella Farley said.
"He was put on the list for a transplant about two years ago, and they've finally got a live donor," Ella said. "We're just so grateful for that. This is a person that put their name on the list to donate."
Ella, who was a nurse with Clarendon Memorial Hospital for decades, retiring just about four years ago, said she is raising money to help pay for the surgery as well as for the incidental costs.
"The Medical University of South Carolina has a program with several places to stay but it's $40 a night, and he will be there about three weeks," Ella said. "There's also the gas for getting back and forth for his family."
The account is called the Robert A. Farley Kidney Fund. Donations may be made by referencing the account and mailing 106 S. Brooks St., Manning, SC 29102.
